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STD paranoia going crazy?

Asked by on March 17, 2014

I’ve always had certain things I stick to: if I’m not officially dating someone, I will do mutual masturbation but no sex of any sort (I’ve broken this a few times, but whatever). Anyway, my doctors and everyone else, including my parents, have told me that these activities are safe, because skin-skin contact STDs are mainly spread through mucous membranes, like the mouth and genitals, which would not be involved, unless you have an immunity problem. But now everyone is saying that handjobs carry so much risk, even though my doctor and STD specialists have told me they are safe. I’m so scared, because I can’t tell every guy I make out with, or do boob play with, to get an STD test! In an ideal world, maybe, but you can’t tell someone to get a test if you’re not even official.





July 30, 2008 at 9:36 am

its just a matter of washing your hands and toys, like disinfecting them. as long as you don't touch someone else then touch yourself, then you won't be transmitting their body fluids/skin. that goes the same way for the other person. don't let them play with themselves then touch all over you. you might want to keep some hand wipes or hand santizer close by when your masturbating.



July 30, 2008 at 8:56 am

well if they arent official dont sleep with them. and yes u can ask them 2 get tested if ur official u have the right to do so. and if they wont do it then they really dont care about ur well being


just a girl  

July 30, 2008 at 10:36 am

EVERYONE can catch an STD. I have seen photos of warts on hands, mouths and down there, butt too.

ONE in FOUR has a STD
Get tested….stay informed…I have attached a web site that can help w/all your questions

If you still wonder type in ‘std’ under imagine on goggle…it will show you what you can catch. It is pretty scary.

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